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Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Do you have the Heart to tell the truth?

I am only with you because your ass is huge…

I am only with you to save up money while spending yours…

You are not the father of my child…

Do you really think that I am with you because of your looks!?

I am and probably never will get past the fact of not being with my ex-significant other.

My mother doesn’t like you. But I like you enough to ride this out. We’ll just never get married.

I am attracted to your sister more than I am to you…

My child needed a father figure more than I need you…

I have 3 children, each with their own mother…

I am settling by being with you…

I am HIV/AIDS positive…



Do you have the heart not to break someone else’s heart? Desperation can bring out the self-centered liar in just about anyone. Hidden Agendas are the heart and soul of lies. And any person that holds onto the truth, are fueled by these agendas. Just face it, why lie for one slice of pizza, when you can lie for the whole pie! A man isn’t going to lie to a woman for just a kiss. A woman isn’t going to lie to a man a weekend getaway.

I ask that you OWN UP! I ask that you push all your chips to the center of the table and go ALL IN, with the truth. The truth, especially the scandalous kind, shouldn’t be used as a way for a person to openly accept your immaturity. The truth is your promise to be who you are… no masks, no hidden agendas, just YOU.

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5 comments:

  1. I had to do this last night. I ended a relationship with someone I cared about very much. I saw she was unhappy as I was, so I had to tell her the truth about how I felt and our relationship. She thanked me and hopefully we can still be friends.

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  2. Deshair most people are afaid of being exposed as weak or having the reputation of being a screw up. Transparency is the ultimate weapon to combat deceit. Transparency gives others the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to deal with you or vice versa. The fact is most people cant handle the truth...including moi at times. Great article my dear friend. xoxo Snubby

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  3. Don't know what the hell the comment above mines says, but this topic is much needed. Honesty is the reason I rarely ever meet women off the internet. They almost never look like they did on their profiles!

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